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I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year now. Before him I was in a short lived relationship with a slightly older man who claimed to be fully heterosexual but slowly began presenting himself as a homosexual in denial. He knitted, got his nails done, and gay bashed for no reason without prompting. That and his speech and aptitude towards seemingly disliking woman and "rough men" made me conclude he was gay. My current, however, is well strange. He has no interest in sex, we tried 4 times and every time he --and this is graphic-- he honestly could not get it hard enough to go in despite him having a large boner while we were making out. He hates touching my vagina in any way, and comments it stinks even when I've showered with summers eve and changed my clothes. He says it feels gross down there and wipes off any fluid he might get on his hand. My OBGYN says it's fine down there. He doesn't particularly like my breasts, although they're good sized and fairly perky. The only things he seems to want to do are grope my ass and kiss me. I know that not all homosexuals follow the common stereotypes. If anything he comes off more as a sexist since he expects me and his mother to do all the cooking, cleaning, and clothes washing, hands down and claims women complain too much and can't handle money and wear too much makeup that ruins their face. It's just the lack of sexual and emotional attention from him makes him more like a good friend than a boyfriend. What makes it worse is I myself am being drawn to think it's somehow my fault and I might be a lesbian. I've never denied I like attractive woman, but following the few sexual activities i had with my boyfriend i found men in general to be less appealing than I thought. I've always liked women more and enjoy scoping out attractive woman just as much as I like hunks. Since he is my first and i his, I wonder if this is the opportunity for at least one of us to see were we stand in terms of our orientation.

Sun, 05/15/2011 - 02:04 — Anonymous

I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year now. Before him I was in a short lived relationship with a slightly older man who claimed to be fully heterosexual but slowly began presenting himself as a homosexual in denial. He knitted, got his nails done, and gay bashed for no reason without prompting. That and his speech and aptitude towards seemingly disliking woman and "rough men" made me conclude he was gay. My current, however, is well strange.

ok soo I am in middle school and the people at my school are very fun and nice. so I thought. when I first came to the school (I was new like 6 months ago :P) everyone was being so nice. I'm definitely NOT in the popular group but I'm probs in the group right under that. anyways, everyone loved me and I was pretty much friends with everyone in that 'group'. well, just about a month ago, everybody started being kinda mean and ignoring me. I don't know what the deal is but it's stupid. I feel like everyone is leaving me out and not talking to me../: and a lot of the 'popular' guys are being really mean. (they always have) I think I'm really ugly but that's just my opinion. everybody says I'm gorgeous but I dnot think so. my life is horrible. I have been getting left out of the lunch table and my BEST FRIEND randomly stopped talking to me and deleted me from facebook! just like last week! ugh. I'm getting suck of this and want It to stop. not EVERYONE is doing this but a lot of people ARE. whenever I get left out of the lunch table or if a guy is being mean or if someone is leaving me out or just being mean I'LL CRY. I hate crying! i don't want to cry! a lot of people think I'm crying for attention but I DONT WANT THE ATTENTION. I can tell people are getting really frustrated with me crying so much. I just kinda hate my life so I really want some help. I wanna know how I can be more tough. how I can fight crying. how I can give those mean people a taste of their own medicine. how I can be more happy and fun. AND HOW PEOPLE WILL LIKE ME. I'm sorry for such a long question but if you help, I LOVE YOU. <3 thank you.

Sun, 05/15/2011 - 06:04 — Anonymous

ok soo I am in middle school and the people at my school are very fun and nice. so I thought. when I first came to the school (I was new like 6 months ago :P) everyone was being so nice. I'm definitely NOT in the popular group but I'm probs in the group right under that. anyways, everyone loved me and I was pretty much friends with everyone in that 'group'. well, just about a month ago, everybody started being kinda mean and ignoring me. I don't know what the deal is but it's stupid.

Okay so yesterday was my best friends birthday party and she invited male and females (including my long time crush) we played truth or dare at some time and my other friend (let's call hm mark) DARED me to kiss my crush! (mark knew I liked him since i told him a while ago) I was flipping out XD mark held me back so I couldn't move and so then my crush kissed me and everyone was like "oooooooh" since a few of them knew I liked him. Looks like I got my first kiss with the guy I've had a crush on for 4 years (we're in the eighth grade currently) but now... I don't really know what to do. I wish I could find out of he likes me or not bt I don't want to be too "in hisf face." what should I do? Please and thank youu (:

Sun, 05/15/2011 - 18:04 — Anonymous

Okay so yesterday was my best friends birthday party and she invited male and females (including my long time crush) we played truth or dare at some time and my other friend (let's call hm mark) DARED me to kiss my crush! (mark knew I liked him since i told him a while ago) I was flipping out XD mark held me back so I couldn't move and so then my crush kissed me and everyone was like "oooooooh" since a few of them knew I liked him. Looks like I got my first kiss with the guy I've had a crush on for 4 years (we're in the eighth grade currently) but now... I don't really know what to do.

I think my brother-in-law is gay. I have no proof but I went to visit yesterday, and she wasn't there. I waited in the house and I could hear what can best be described as groaning. I thought my sister was having sex with him, but then she walks through to front door. I said "Man, you scared me. I thought you were upstairs" to which sh replied "no. I've been in work". I said "i'm sure I can hear someone upstairs!" and she said "well it can't be Ryan. He's away!". So I decided to go upstairs and see who was in the house and Ryan was in the bedroom with a male friend of his. They looked suspicious as if they had just been up to something but Ryan quickly said "Tommy? Get out!". Later he said "I was just a bit shocked, I wasn't expecting to see you!". So, why did Ryan say he was going away? Isn't it weird that he was in the bedroom with a guy? What was the groaning sound?

Sun, 05/15/2011 - 18:04 — Anonymous

I think my brother-in-law is gay. I have no proof but I went to visit yesterday, and she wasn't there. I waited in the house and I could hear what can best be described as groaning. I thought my sister was having sex with him, but then she walks through to front door. I said "Man, you scared me. I thought you were upstairs" to which sh replied "no. I've been in work". I said "i'm sure I can hear someone upstairs!" and she said "well it can't be Ryan. He's away!". So I decided to go upstairs and see who was in the house and Ryan was in the bedroom with a male friend of his.

I been friends with a guy for 2 years.We are best friends.We stay at each other houses a lot and sleep in the same bed.We both sleep in the nude.We never had sex.But the last 3 months I been wanted to have sex with him.I think I am in love with him.I never told him.How can i get him to haue sex?Why haven't he tried to have sex with me?He is not gay and is not dating anyone.I am a beautiful girl.I have long blonde hair,green eyes,5'5'',110 lbs

Sun, 05/15/2011 - 18:04 — Anonymous

I been friends with a guy for 2 years.We are best friends.We stay at each other houses a lot and sleep in the same bed.We both sleep in the nude.We never had sex.But the last 3 months I been wanted to have sex with him.I think I am in love with him.I never told him.How can i get him to haue sex?Why haven't he tried to have sex with me?He is not gay and is not dating anyone.I am a beautiful girl.I have long blonde hair,green eyes,5'5'',110 lbs

I have only recently started dating guys, in fact only one guy. I really like him and he claims to like me. In fact when we are together it is great. He is interested in me and he is interesting to talk to. But last time we met was early last week, we spoke and it went fine in my head. He usually isn't very talkative via text/online so I'm not expecting full on conversations. He has tests all next week so I think he will be stressed but since we last saw each other he isn't replying to anything. I've text him and I got no reply and I've tried speaking to him online twice but he doesn't respond. I have no idea what I could have done and I am sure he would have told me if he wasn't interested because he told me that he does that if he isn't. Any ideas? I don't want to keep messaging him and coming across as clingy but I also don't want him to think that I'm only talking to him when I want something.

Sun, 05/15/2011 - 22:04 — Anonymous

I have only recently started dating guys, in fact only one guy. I really like him and he claims to like me. In fact when we are together it is great. He is interested in me and he is interesting to talk to. But last time we met was early last week, we spoke and it went fine in my head. He usually isn't very talkative via text/online so I'm not expecting full on conversations. He has tests all next week so I think he will be stressed but since we last saw each other he isn't replying to anything.

Heres my list Feminism-Oh were girls, the only thing we can do is look good and have children, we are so happy and perky! Girls in a group- Very loud and weird acting. Look at us, we're having fun because we're girls in a group. Pregnancy-When that stomach is a huge ball, wow. You have a baby INSIDE OF YOU. Driving Big CArs- Why do many girls like to drive big automobiles like Mitsubishi montero's and Jeep. Driving a big car doesn't make YoU look bigger or tougher. Trying to look tough-You're girls, you cant be taken serious when looking tough Lets see you're lists! WOAH YEA!

Mon, 05/16/2011 - 02:04 — Anonymous

Heres my list

Feminism-Oh were girls, the only thing we can do is look good and have children, we are so happy and perky!

Girls in a group- Very loud and weird acting. Look at us, we're having fun because we're girls in a group.

Pregnancy-When that stomach is a huge ball, wow. You have a baby INSIDE OF YOU.

Driving Big CArs- Why do many girls like to drive big automobiles like Mitsubishi montero's and Jeep. Driving a big car doesn't make YoU look bigger or tougher.

Trying to look tough-You're girls, you cant be taken serious when looking tough

Lets see you're lists! WOAH YEA!

I have a giant crush on my bi best friend I'm bi too and I'm 14. How do I flirt or get him to like me back when he comes over next weekenD. What do I do. I really like him but I think it would be awkward if I asked. So please any flirting tips to get him to like me please just anything please.

Mon, 05/16/2011 - 15:05 — Anonymous

I have a giant crush on my bi best friend I'm bi too and I'm 14. How do I flirt or get him to like me back when he comes over next weekenD. What do I do. I really like him but I think it would be awkward if I asked. So please any flirting tips to get him to like me please just anything please.

My parents are in disbelief when i tell them ATLEAST half the teens i know already had sex. Im 14 btw. My bestfriend was pregnant but she had an abortion. My other friend Brittney is 14 and has twins but her mom made her give them to her grandma. This girl I know Yesenia couldnt afford an abortion and had her cousin punch the egg out of her...i cried when that happened. But i didnt tell my mom cuz she would go retarded. All my bestfriends allready had sex and Im going to wait til someone right comes along. I stopped dating a year ago cuz Im better off without a boyfriend and im not going to start til I find someone worth my time. Its been on my mind all year and everything is just alot to comprehend. Im not having sex anytime soon but definitly before I get married because I dont want to know how sex is through just one person in my whole life. But yeah Id like to know everyones thoughts comments ect on this topic or first times etc..

Mon, 05/16/2011 - 15:04 — Anonymous

My parents are in disbelief when i tell them ATLEAST half the teens i know already had sex. Im 14 btw. My bestfriend was pregnant but she had an abortion. My other friend Brittney is 14 and has twins but her mom made her give them to her grandma. This girl I know Yesenia couldnt afford an abortion and had her cousin punch the egg out of her...i cried when that happened. But i didnt tell my mom cuz she would go retarded. All my bestfriends allready had sex and Im going to wait til someone right comes along.

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